It is one of my greatest honours to be asked to give someone their final farewell from this life time. When you lose a loved one, there are so many thoughts running through your head, and organising a funeral can be incredibly overwhelming. I feel that I can truly understand & empathise what the families I work with are going through.
I was 19 when I lost my Mum and funeral planning was very stressful. Trying to work out who was speaking on the day of the service, what songs would Mum have wanted, slideshow or no slideshow, where would she want her ashes to be laid to rest…. The list goes on…..
I have been conducting funerals for 5 years now, and I find that no service is ever the same. The last 2 years of Covid has really turned the way we do things at funerals upside down. We have had to think outside of the box to try and involve family as much as we can, when attendance numbers have sadly been as low as 10 mourners. It has certainly taught me a lot about creating unique services that reflect the loved ones life.
Gone are the days of cookie cutter funeral services. There are so many wonderful elements that we can incorporate to make your goodbye memorable and most importantly what you think your loved one would have wanted.
Candle lighting
Incorporating favourite songs
Playing videos from family & friends who can’t be there on the day
Livestream to family & friends
Popping a bottle of champagne at the end of the service & sharing a last cheers with your loved one
Live music (I have some great recommendations)
Funeral services at a favourite place - Winery, Restaurant, Park or even at home
.I feel that I have a calm, loving and relaxed presence, and can support & guide your family as we plan a service that is a true reflection of your loved one’s life. It is so important to choose a celebrant that you feel comfortable with and makes you feel at ease from the first meeting. I am more than happy to have a chat with you before you decide if I am the right person for your family…
I have been lucky to work with some wonderful funeral homes & directors over the years who including
Below are some kind words from families that I have worked with…..
“Erin, on behalf of my family, I would like to thank you very much for presenting a beautiful service for our Mum. I have had lots of positive feedback from family and friends. You were able to guide us through this difficult time and help us to focus on the good times we shared with Mum. She will live on in our hearts, forever! ”
“So many people that watched the service online commented of what a beautiful service you wrote. They saw and felt how sincere and special you made it for us all.
I’ve been trying to find the words to let you know that you have a gift and no words seem worthy. I think it is your sincerity, your calming effect and I think you really connect. Empath perhaps?
It’s not often in ones life they get to do what they are passionate about, stay safe and thank you again.”
“I would like to thank Erin for the most beautiful service for my father. Erin went over and above to make our day special.
She blended in with our family like she was a part of us and we are extremely happy to have welcomed her to our home. 10/10 perfect, absolutely nothing was missed & so well spoken. Erin thank you for making it so beautiful. ”
“Erin recently officiated my mother’s funeral. At such a sad and tragic time, she brought calm, grace and gentle care to the event. Erin took the time to get to know us and what was important to us and to mum. She spoke beautifully and has a wonderful presence as a public speaker.
I was most impressed and touched by the way she made specific remarks and eye contact with each and every one of us, so we all felt included and acknowledged on the day. Thank you Erin, I would highly recommend you for any special event, you are wonderful”
“We chose Erin to help us celebrate the life of our dear father and Pop Eric. Erin made things so easy for us and has been an absolute pleasure to deal with.
On the day of the service Erin received so many compliments and we couldn’t agree more. Erin you were amazing and we all loved listening to you share the stories and memories of such a special man.
We are forever grateful to you ”